I'm very sorry for your loss. It has to be gut wrenching. I don't speak for anyone in the Dev team here, Im just an Ohmie as well.
Its hard to respond to something like this without telling someone to look at what they did wrong themselves. The Discord, the Forums, almost everything everywhere tells you to be very careful and never follow support links or give out your pass phrase to your digital wallet. You had to have done one of these things that jeopardized your wallet and allowed access. Hell there is one site that required a whole lot of KYC to get set up and I'm scared of it someday coming to bite me.
In the end if you've made a fatal mistake with your wallet, all you can do is create a new digital wallet and start over. Make sure you remove anything else out of that wallet before they get their thieving hands on it too, btw…
Remember,
"If you have a problem, if no one else can help, and if you can find them…..Maybe you can hire The A-Team"….